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		<title>By: Middle Zone Musings &#187; The Day I Decided to, er, Get Help</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5493</link>
		<dc:creator>Middle Zone Musings &#187; The Day I Decided to, er, Get Help</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 11:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] thing anyway, right? Why not just forget about it? On the other hand, hopefully we&#8217;ve all recently learned something from hitting brick walls, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5419</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 17:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nurgle, huh? OK, let's check it out. When I type &lt;i&gt;define:nurgle&lt;/i&gt; into my Google search bar, I get the following:

"In the fictional universes of Warhammer 40,000 and Warhammer Fantasy, Nurgle is one of the four major Chaos gods."

Hmmm... so belly button lint = nurgle = chaos. Makes perfect sense to me! :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nurgle, huh? OK, let&#8217;s check it out. When I type <i>define:nurgle</i> into my Google search bar, I get the following:</p>
<p>&#8220;In the fictional universes of Warhammer 40,000 and Warhammer Fantasy, Nurgle is one of the four major Chaos gods.&#8221;</p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230; so belly button lint = nurgle = chaos. Makes perfect sense to me! <img src='http://middlezonemusings.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Mother Earth</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5415</link>
		<dc:creator>Mother Earth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 16:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>belly button lint imy dear s unofficially called nurgle - giggle</description>
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		<title>By: Middle Zone Musings &#187; Overcoming Barriers, Part 2</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5403</link>
		<dc:creator>Middle Zone Musings &#187; Overcoming Barriers, Part 2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 11:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] last night returned you to Earth and you missed it, before you proceed I highly recommend you first go here and read Part 1. I&#8217;m just [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5350</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 11:58:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Karen - Sounds to me like you have a pretty good technique going. Do what you can yourself, and seek qualified help for the rest.

And I don't know if there's a technical term for BBL, but here's a couple of translations I found:

Pig Latin: ellybay uttonbay intlay
Japanese Kanji: 臍のゴマ
Japanese Katana: へそのゴマ   :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Karen - Sounds to me like you have a pretty good technique going. Do what you can yourself, and seek qualified help for the rest.</p>
<p>And I don&#8217;t know if there&#8217;s a technical term for BBL, but here&#8217;s a couple of translations I found:</p>
<p>Pig Latin: ellybay uttonbay intlay<br />
Japanese Kanji: 臍のゴマ<br />
Japanese Katana: へそのゴマ   <img src='http://middlezonemusings.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5349</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 11:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@GL - I agree that experience is the best teacher, but that just means the walls are different and - usually - bigger and badder.

But still, you have a point; experience can make facing the walls much easier, I'll tell ya. You're less likely to suffer from the "can't" syndrome, for instance, if you have a lot of successes under your belt you can "point to". And there aren't many "template" type solutions out there either.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@GL - I agree that experience is the best teacher, but that just means the walls are different and - usually - bigger and badder.</p>
<p>But still, you have a point; experience can make facing the walls much easier, I&#8217;ll tell ya. You&#8217;re less likely to suffer from the &#8220;can&#8217;t&#8221; syndrome, for instance, if you have a lot of successes under your belt you can &#8220;point to&#8221;. And there aren&#8217;t many &#8220;template&#8221; type solutions out there either.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5348</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 11:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jeanne - thanks, I appreciate it! With y'all's feedback, I can make part 2 even better!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jeanne - thanks, I appreciate it! With y&#8217;all&#8217;s feedback, I can make part 2 even better!</p>
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		<title>By: Mother Earth</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5345</link>
		<dc:creator>Mother Earth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 00:09:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what is the lint called that frequents the belly button?

my neighborhood kids and I built a town mimicking our own from a similar sand pile when I was young - it was a summer adventure for sure --- know what I loved about sand? How warm it was in the sun. 

thanks for that memory

when i get overwhelmed or hit a brick wall I shut down - and when i shu down or spin my wheels it's usually time to refocus

i have learned that if I dump all of the issues into a journal or a blog post ( ha!) that I tend to solve my own problems or somehow answers come - it's that law of attraction stuff - i am not a devout follower of all of that - I just feel if I ask the right questions or any question at all - the answers appear.

i apply this to intense things like how will i pay this bill, to things like I don't quite know where to put this item away - usually a pause and an asking will solve these things for me 

I also think it's great to pose the same question your peers - often they aren't as attached as I am and their insight is invaluable

curious what part 2 brings</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what is the lint called that frequents the belly button?</p>
<p>my neighborhood kids and I built a town mimicking our own from a similar sand pile when I was young - it was a summer adventure for sure &#8212; know what I loved about sand? How warm it was in the sun. </p>
<p>thanks for that memory</p>
<p>when i get overwhelmed or hit a brick wall I shut down - and when i shu down or spin my wheels it&#8217;s usually time to refocus</p>
<p>i have learned that if I dump all of the issues into a journal or a blog post ( ha!) that I tend to solve my own problems or somehow answers come - it&#8217;s that law of attraction stuff - i am not a devout follower of all of that - I just feel if I ask the right questions or any question at all - the answers appear.</p>
<p>i apply this to intense things like how will i pay this bill, to things like I don&#8217;t quite know where to put this item away - usually a pause and an asking will solve these things for me </p>
<p>I also think it&#8217;s great to pose the same question your peers - often they aren&#8217;t as attached as I am and their insight is invaluable</p>
<p>curious what part 2 brings</p>
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		<title>By: GL Hoffman</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5343</link>
		<dc:creator>GL Hoffman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 16:25:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great question, Robert.  I think it keeps getting easier and better.  It is almost a feeling of I have been here before and managed my way out of this, so this too shall pass.  So, it might be generated with practice and experience.  I mean to say...if you are forty years old and I have more failures than successes in overcomine a challenge, I am not sure one can advise to simply start thinking 'this' way.  Interesting questions though...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great question, Robert.  I think it keeps getting easier and better.  It is almost a feeling of I have been here before and managed my way out of this, so this too shall pass.  So, it might be generated with practice and experience.  I mean to say&#8230;if you are forty years old and I have more failures than successes in overcomine a challenge, I am not sure one can advise to simply start thinking &#8216;this&#8217; way.  Interesting questions though&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5341</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 01:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,

Let's just applaud &lt;i&gt;both&lt;/i&gt; times!  Why not?  Judging from past experience, I'm sure &lt;i&gt;both&lt;/i&gt; posts will deserve it!

Jeanne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just applaud <i>both</i> times!  Why not?  Judging from past experience, I&#8217;m sure <i>both</i> posts will deserve it!</p>
<p>Jeanne</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5334</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 14:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, there's a difference between creative walls and discipline walls, Marcus. C.S. Lewis once said something like, "Even if you don't &lt;i&gt;feel&lt;/i&gt; like a Christian, &lt;i&gt;act&lt;/i&gt; like one."

That advice is applicable to just about every other endeavor we undertake; even if you're not &lt;i&gt;feeling&lt;/i&gt; like a (pick one: poet, writer, shoemaker, coach, etc.), we should just &lt;i&gt;act&lt;/i&gt; one.

That was hard for me at first. Seemed almost... I don't know, fake. But what I found was when I quit resisting (for whatever reason), settled down and just &lt;i&gt;did&lt;/i&gt; the things I was supposed to do, they got easier! It's kinda like Yogi Berra said about baseball: 90% is mental, the other half is physical. Weird, huh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, there&#8217;s a difference between creative walls and discipline walls, Marcus. C.S. Lewis once said something like, &#8220;Even if you don&#8217;t <i>feel</i> like a Christian, <i>act</i> like one.&#8221;</p>
<p>That advice is applicable to just about every other endeavor we undertake; even if you&#8217;re not <i>feeling</i> like a (pick one: poet, writer, shoemaker, coach, etc.), we should just <i>act</i> one.</p>
<p>That was hard for me at first. Seemed almost&#8230; I don&#8217;t know, fake. But what I found was when I quit resisting (for whatever reason), settled down and just <i>did</i> the things I was supposed to do, they got easier! It&#8217;s kinda like Yogi Berra said about baseball: 90% is mental, the other half is physical. Weird, huh?</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Goodyear</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5328</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Goodyear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 02:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me hitting a wall usually means I'm stuck creatively. So then what I do is go find something that inspires.

If I'm stuck on a poem, I go read great poems. If I'm stuck on a story, I go read great stories.

The bigger issue is what to do when my daily chores start to feel like a wall. When I don't want to edit--or answer my email--or meet deadlines. That's a kind of wall that just takes discipline. I've got to open up the ladder and climb over my own bad attitude. Or whatever. The metaphors are thick because its late.

Good to see you on Twitter!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me hitting a wall usually means I&#8217;m stuck creatively. So then what I do is go find something that inspires.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;m stuck on a poem, I go read great poems. If I&#8217;m stuck on a story, I go read great stories.</p>
<p>The bigger issue is what to do when my daily chores start to feel like a wall. When I don&#8217;t want to edit&#8211;or answer my email&#8211;or meet deadlines. That&#8217;s a kind of wall that just takes discipline. I&#8217;ve got to open up the ladder and climb over my own bad attitude. Or whatever. The metaphors are thick because its late.</p>
<p>Good to see you on Twitter!</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/overcoming-barriers-part-1/#comment-5325</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 16:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeanne, you can be rest assured you're not the only one, um, blessed with the ability to make things 'way more complicated than they need to be! It's called analysis paralysis, and I'm the Regional Chapter President where I live. :-\

But I do appreciate the kind words. Maybe we should, er, hold the applause, though, until Part 2 comes out. I mean, you never know...

... &lt;i&gt;naaaah!&lt;/i&gt; Go ahead and applause; I can use all the encouragement I can get! :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeanne, you can be rest assured you&#8217;re not the only one, um, blessed with the ability to make things &#8216;way more complicated than they need to be! It&#8217;s called analysis paralysis, and I&#8217;m the Regional Chapter President where I live. :-\</p>
<p>But I do appreciate the kind words. Maybe we should, er, hold the applause, though, until Part 2 comes out. I mean, you never know&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; <i>naaaah!</i> Go ahead and applause; I can use all the encouragement I can get! <img src='http://middlezonemusings.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 16:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,

What a wealth of wisdom--and wonderful advice--you always provide!  Love the water analogy!

I &lt;i&gt;often&lt;/i&gt; meet challenges in this straightforward, unrelenting way.  In fact, I sometimes turn things &lt;i&gt;into&lt;/i&gt; challenges by meeting them this way.   ;-)  But, once I come to my senses, I usually manage to smooth them over!

Thanks!
Jeanne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,</p>
<p>What a wealth of wisdom&#8211;and wonderful advice&#8211;you always provide!  Love the water analogy!</p>
<p>I <i>often</i> meet challenges in this straightforward, unrelenting way.  In fact, I sometimes turn things <i>into</i> challenges by meeting them this way.   <img src='http://middlezonemusings.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  But, once I come to my senses, I usually manage to smooth them over!</p>
<p>Thanks!<br />
Jeanne</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 12:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Small chunks - incremental bits - yeah, just nibble at it until you break through. That's a tried and true technique that works with a lot of challenges.

And you'll note there were only three posts this week, Brad...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Small chunks - incremental bits - yeah, just nibble at it until you break through. That&#8217;s a tried and true technique that works with a lot of challenges.</p>
<p>And you&#8217;ll note there were only three posts this week, Brad&#8230;</p>
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