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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-361</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 22:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Point taken, Tully. I agree with you that I'd NOT like to work for Tom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Point taken, Tully. I agree with you that I&#8217;d NOT like to work for Tom.</p>
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		<title>By: Tully</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-357</link>
		<dc:creator>Tully</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Mar 2007 16:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, but bring in the old, 'Actions speak louder than words' and we've got a guy swinging a hammer when he was trying to say "Don't treat these trucks differently from the old trucks - just use 'em"... 

Understanding = Message + Delivery</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, but bring in the old, &#8216;Actions speak louder than words&#8217; and we&#8217;ve got a guy swinging a hammer when he was trying to say &#8220;Don&#8217;t treat these trucks differently from the old trucks - just use &#8216;em&#8221;&#8230; </p>
<p>Understanding = Message + Delivery</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-354</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 02:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, and Mike, next time, it's a faceoff: 30 paces with wet noodles...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, and Mike, next time, it&#8217;s a faceoff: 30 paces with wet noodles&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-353</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 02:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, you and Tully may have a point. Tom was indeed a crusty character.

But on the other hand, I personally "saw" it differently. What I hear him saying is, "Don't treat these trucks differently from the old trucks. And don't be worried about dents, scratches or scrapes on these brand new work trucks - after all, they're &lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;work&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; trucks."

What I find fascinating is the variety of meanings different people can take away from the same story. That's what makes parablesso powerful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, you and Tully may have a point. Tom was indeed a crusty character.</p>
<p>But on the other hand, I personally &#8220;saw&#8221; it differently. What I hear him saying is, &#8220;Don&#8217;t treat these trucks differently from the old trucks. And don&#8217;t be worried about dents, scratches or scrapes on these brand new work trucks - after all, they&#8217;re <i><b>work</b></i> trucks.&#8221;</p>
<p>What I find fascinating is the variety of meanings different people can take away from the same story. That&#8217;s what makes parablesso powerful.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-352</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 00:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rats!  Inappropriate use of a question mark!! 30 lashes with a wet noodle!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rats!  Inappropriate use of a question mark!! 30 lashes with a wet noodle!</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-351</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 00:31:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Think about it.  A man owns a construction company.  He's undoubtedly swung a hammer for a living.  Now think about Tully's comment.  How does the boss deals with people problems?  He hammers them!  Now he needs to demonstrate his frustration with their inability to figure out what his unspoken offer/command is?  Pick up his hammer and start swinging!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Think about it.  A man owns a construction company.  He&#8217;s undoubtedly swung a hammer for a living.  Now think about Tully&#8217;s comment.  How does the boss deals with people problems?  He hammers them!  Now he needs to demonstrate his frustration with their inability to figure out what his unspoken offer/command is?  Pick up his hammer and start swinging!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-350</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 22:56:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, thanks for dropping by! I thought of that one too when I first heard it. Not sure how it would apply here, but you never know...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, thanks for dropping by! I thought of that one too when I first heard it. Not sure how it would apply here, but you never know&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-349</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 22:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tully, that's certainly an insight that bears thinking about. If true, I would certainly agree with your conclusion. I've been following Bob Sutton's thread on jerks in the workplace for about a year now and if true, Tom would qualify for sure.

Good thinking! Always more than one side to things, it seems.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tully, that&#8217;s certainly an insight that bears thinking about. If true, I would certainly agree with your conclusion. I&#8217;ve been following Bob Sutton&#8217;s thread on jerks in the workplace for about a year now and if true, Tom would qualify for sure.</p>
<p>Good thinking! Always more than one side to things, it seems.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 21:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe it illustrates the old adage "To a man with a hammer, every problem looks like a nail!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe it illustrates the old adage &#8220;To a man with a hammer, every problem looks like a nail!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Tully</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-347</link>
		<dc:creator>Tully</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 15:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, I might have missed the point because all I got out of it was that the 'leader' of the company is quite poor in communicating with his staff. 

Was it ever mentioned how these trucks were to be used? Were they for a special purpose? If someone parked them in a specific place, might there be a specific intent? Would it disrupt this intent if someone moved them out of the way? Are they ready to be used? Is the graphics company on their way to make them pretty?

And then there is the complete lack of 'taking the initiative' on the part of the employees... which is also a direct result of the leadership.... 

Perhaps a little sign on the dash that said "Use Me!" would have gotten the job done more effectively without the hammer and the unnecessary dramatics. 

This tells me that Tom has his employees living in fear of him, he sucks at communication, and he likely flies off the handle on a regular basis. I don't think I'd want to work for Tom...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I might have missed the point because all I got out of it was that the &#8216;leader&#8217; of the company is quite poor in communicating with his staff. </p>
<p>Was it ever mentioned how these trucks were to be used? Were they for a special purpose? If someone parked them in a specific place, might there be a specific intent? Would it disrupt this intent if someone moved them out of the way? Are they ready to be used? Is the graphics company on their way to make them pretty?</p>
<p>And then there is the complete lack of &#8216;taking the initiative&#8217; on the part of the employees&#8230; which is also a direct result of the leadership&#8230;. </p>
<p>Perhaps a little sign on the dash that said &#8220;Use Me!&#8221; would have gotten the job done more effectively without the hammer and the unnecessary dramatics. </p>
<p>This tells me that Tom has his employees living in fear of him, he sucks at communication, and he likely flies off the handle on a regular basis. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;d want to work for Tom&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-346</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2007 23:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tariq, I'm glad you mentioned the term "status symbol", and the idea of a disruptive shock is very perceptive.

Thanks for a great, insightful comment. You're right - it's about perspective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tariq, I&#8217;m glad you mentioned the term &#8220;status symbol&#8221;, and the idea of a disruptive shock is very perceptive.</p>
<p>Thanks for a great, insightful comment. You&#8217;re right - it&#8217;s about perspective.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2007 21:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chip:

Bwa-ha-ha-ha! You just made me blow milk from my nose on that one!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chip:</p>
<p>Bwa-ha-ha-ha! You just made me blow milk from my nose on that one!</p>
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		<title>By: Sterling "Chip" Camden</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-344</link>
		<dc:creator>Sterling "Chip" Camden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2007 21:25:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The moral of the story is: if you work for Tom, don't drive your own truck to work.</description>
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		<title>By: Tariq Khan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tariq Khan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2007 19:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bob,

I know that there's no "right answer".  

To me the parable, a great story, says that we are overly caught up in the way things appear.  We need to get past the shine and the glitz to see things with better perspective -- this is a truck to get us and stuff from A to B, not just a new and shiny status symbol (that status symbol part is a post all by itself!).  Sometimes it takes a disruptive shock to the system (the interaction between our perceptions and the thing being perceived) for us to truly see.

Bob, great post, and thanks for the participatory exercise!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob,</p>
<p>I know that there&#8217;s no &#8220;right answer&#8221;.  </p>
<p>To me the parable, a great story, says that we are overly caught up in the way things appear.  We need to get past the shine and the glitz to see things with better perspective &#8212; this is a truck to get us and stuff from A to B, not just a new and shiny status symbol (that status symbol part is a post all by itself!).  Sometimes it takes a disruptive shock to the system (the interaction between our perceptions and the thing being perceived) for us to truly see.</p>
<p>Bob, great post, and thanks for the participatory exercise!</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Hruzek</title>
		<link>http://middlezonemusings.com/okay-now-its-used/#comment-340</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Hruzek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2007 17:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karin!

When I first heard this story, (it was passed on to me by Tom's son), my immediate response was, "well, yeah, the point is... uh, er..." and then I realized there's actually many levels here.

What's interesting about parables is that nearly everyone will have a slightly (or even wildly) different take away. It's not really: "What does this mean?", but "What does this mean to you, today?"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karin!</p>
<p>When I first heard this story, (it was passed on to me by Tom&#8217;s son), my immediate response was, &#8220;well, yeah, the point is&#8230; uh, er&#8230;&#8221; and then I realized there&#8217;s actually many levels here.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s interesting about parables is that nearly everyone will have a slightly (or even wildly) different take away. It&#8217;s not really: &#8220;What does this mean?&#8221;, but &#8220;What does this mean to you, today?&#8221;</p>
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