Ever Been Stressed Out?
OK; show of hands.
How many times do we do everything in our power to avoid trouble like it’s an onslaught of the bubonic plague? Yup; thought so. Me too. I mean, who in their right mind purposely seeks out situations that test our very mettle to the core, you know?
Oh, sure; we all enjoy occasional excitement. But I’m not talkin’ about intentional thrills, like skydiving, bungee-jumping, or thumb-wrestling. Those are all good for an adrenaline high, but they’re all something you do on purpose, you know?
I’m talkin’ about high-stress situations, and no, not the good kind. You know what I mean; the kind you get when your job is in jeopardy, your health goes south, something or other that’s important to you is in danger of completely cratering. Where the stress level registers 8.6 on the Richter scale. Yeah, that kind of stress.
The fact is, when it comes to life’s hard knocks, we try to avoid those as much as we can, right? We tend to seek safety and security, be it a bank account, a job, or even a relationship. Hey, it’s the way we’re wired.
So why is it, when we pretty much all spend most of our time seeking to avoid trials and tribulations, that unpleasant things still seem to seek, and yes, find us like the proverbial bullets with our names on them? And why are we so surprised when they do?
Well… I’m not going to tell you.
The fact is, this is my way of introducing our topic for the next What I Learned From… groupwrite project:
Yup; this time, we’re going to talk about stress (sound of terrified scream).
The fact is, stress is actually a pretty good school teacher, isn’t it? And I dare say we’ve all learned a thing or two about life, particularly when the stress levels were, shall we say, higher than we’d like.
Here’s your chance to share a life lesson or two with all of us, cause next Monday, October 6, we kick off the next WILF, and the title is What I Learned From Stress.
So get ready to grab the writing device of your choice, folks, and be prepared to tell us about something you learned from stress.
See ya then!
[Note: A tip o' the hat to my buddy Dennis McMullin for suggesting this topic. the fact is, I'd already picked it even before Hurricane Ike decided to breeze through the area. Ironic, eh?]
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Robert,
what a terrific topic! I am really looking forward to reading the other contributions, and to write one myself.
Ulla Hennigs last blog post..Silence and Peace
Great topic! Most of my current stress comes from working to deadlines…so I will build more than enough time to write my post!
Jackie Camerons last blog post..Fail to prepare – prepare to fail
Needless to say, I’m in!
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@Ulla – Yup; I think this may be perhaps the most ubiquitous of topics so far. Which is a ten-dollar word that means “been there, done that!”
@Jackie – Glad to hear you’re relatively stress free. Deadlines are generally my stress-makers, too, so I know how you feel. :-\
@Jean – There would have really been no excuse for you to skip this one, Jean!
Yeah, I wish I was stress free. School work pretty much contributes to all my stress right now. It seems insane, but I’m sure I will realize it was nothing once I get out in the real world in a few years.
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Oh, I don’t know. You may be blessed enough to manage a career that allows you time to, you know, breathe every now and then. Or maybe not. But ultimately it’s up to you how you want to run your life. My advice: decide now, not then. I promise it’ll make things easier.
Stress? What stress?
Karen Putzs last blog post..What I Learned from my Homebirth
Uh-huh. Right.
I’m not stressed anymore, thanks to Robert, I just banged my head against the ‘puter screen 6 times.
I will be back tomorrow and everyday this week to eleviate my stress. Thanks for the quick kit.
Now I’m off to find some aspirin for my headache.
It never ends … stress… headache… stress… headache… vicious cycle.
Hey, I’m here for ya, Vicky! It really does my heart good to be so… helpful.
I don’t know whether it’s an odd habit or not, as everytime when I’m stressed out, I will release my tension by simply squeeze on a stress ball lol
By the way, Robert. This stress reduction kit seems to be very effective and I will surely try it out…
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Hey, good luck with that, Wilson. Lemme know how it works out. But (and this is very important to remember), if you knock yerself silly, it’s not my fault!
Oh, how I love this topic! Life and stress seem to go hand in hand, but we can do a lot to make sure that stress doesn’t rule our lives. Attitude and expectations play a huge role in this. I am housebound due to a chronic illness and simply had to learn to minimize stress and maximize coping strategies. Many lessons learned along the way…
Thanks for a great website with lots of food for thought. Will be back…
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Thanks for stopping by, Rika, and I hope you join us next week for the What I Learned From Stress Challenge!
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